{"id":17184,"date":"2022-08-29T18:41:30","date_gmt":"2022-08-29T22:41:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/?p=17184"},"modified":"2022-09-06T20:19:52","modified_gmt":"2022-09-07T00:19:52","slug":"mental-health-representation-in-books-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/archives\/17184","title":{"rendered":"Mental Health Representation in Books: Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"

Living with anxiety can be even stranger than living with depression. Because everyone feels anxious sometimes, so how do you know if it\u2019s normal<\/em> anxiety or excessive<\/em> anxiety?<\/p>\n

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First through, you have to recognize it is anxiety, not physical illness.<\/p>\n

Hannah felt as if her body and her soul were shaking at different frequencies, like she could fall out of her own flesh at any moment. Her heart pounded so hard, she was worried it might actually come loose. That didn\u2019t sound medically possible, but anxiety could be a real bitch sometimes.<\/p>\n

— Talia Hibbert<\/a>, Untouchable<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Because anxiety can<\/em> feel like something is physically wrong; your brain can create physical symptoms.<\/p>\n

Martin bit his lip, hard, and breathed through his nose, trying to slow down the panicky beat of his heart. The sensation wasn\u2019t unfamiliar. He\u2019d just never realized what this was before, that a person could have tiny little bursts of terror from only a few words.<\/p>\n

— R Cooper<\/a>, His Mossy Boy<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Even knowing what is happening doesn\u2019t make it easier to cope, because you don\u2019t have control over it.<\/p>\n

Simon wished the floor would open up and swallow him. He sucked in a tight breath through nostrils narrowed with panic and squeezed his eyes shut tight so he couldn\u2019t see himself be seen.<\/p>\n

— Roan Parrish<\/a>, Better Than People<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"Conventionally<\/a><\/p>\n

You have to try and pay attention to how you feel, so you can find the things that cause problems\u2014that set off your anxiety.<\/p>\n

(T)alking on the phone gave him enough anxiety as it was. Never knowing whether a call might turn nasty made him dread it every time he was given a ring.<\/p>\n

— Aidan Wayne<\/a>, Play It Again<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Even when you know what it is, even when you have tools to deal with it, it still doesn\u2019t go away.<\/p>\n

That was the thing about anxiety\u2014 worries over whether to take the medication and when could be worse than the primary symptoms sometimes.<\/p>\n

— Annabeth Albert<\/a>, Conventionally Yours<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Like depression, anxiety feels like something you should be able to deal with\u2014to control\u2014with willpower alone.<\/p>\n

\u201c(W)hat if you\u2019d gone to Sidney\u2019s and said you were super anxious and couldn\u2019t do the show in that exact moment?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cBut I\u2019d said I would.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI know, but you… couldn\u2019t.\u201d She\u2019d gone all gentle. \u201cYou had a panic attack. It\u2019s not like you could just reschedule it for when it was more convenient.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSometimes I can cover it up for a while.\u201d<\/p>\n

— Kris Ripper<\/a>, The Love Study<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"The<\/a><\/p>\n

But that\u2019s not how mental health works.<\/p>\n

There are<\/em> things you can do.<\/p>\n

He cut off his thought spiral and pictured windshield wipers clearing the troubling images from his mind.<\/p>\n

— Roan Parrish<\/a>, Best Laid Plans <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Tricks you can use to redirect your brain.<\/p>\n

Cooper felt the discomfort that had been prickling at the base of his skull since the market bloom across his skin. You don\u2019t belong here<\/em>. He told that voice to fuck off<\/p>\n

— Charlie Adhara<\/a>, Thrown to the Wolves<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Even physical things like exercise to burn off what feels like excess energy.<\/p>\n

(T)he high school therapist who told him exercise might help reduce his anxiety, about consequently becoming obsessed with exercise.<\/p>\n

— Alison Cochrun<\/a>, The Charm Offensive<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"Thrown<\/a><\/p>\n

To move when remaining still is overwhelming.<\/p>\n

He was barely holding himself together and had enough nervous energy running through his body to fuel a walk to Sussex and back. He didn\u2019t think he could take being cooped up in a carriage.<\/p>\n

— Cat Sebastian<\/a>, The Lawrence Browne Affair <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

But even with tricks, you still doubt yourself.<\/p>\n

Why? What the hell about him had Park seen and thought, Oh yes, anxiety-ridden loner with a temper sharper than a serpent\u2019s tooth and a deep-seated fear of change whose longest successful relationship is with an equally judgmental cat? Swoon<\/em>. It seemed too improbable for words.<\/p>\n

— Charlie Adhara<\/a>, Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Because the things you believe about yourself may be irrational, but they are still things you believe<\/em>.<\/p>\n

It was as if he thought he only had one chance and he had to find the right idea, the perfect idea, before he began. As if he thought I might not get him another box, and another and another, until he\u2019d created every single display he might want.<\/p>\n

— Roan Parrish<\/a>, Raze<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\"Best<\/a><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt\u2019s hard for me to understand why anyone wouldn\u2019t want you in their life.\u201d<\/p>\n

I snorted. \u201cHave you met me?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cPlease don\u2019t laugh this off. I mean it.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI know. It\u2019s just easier to push people away than watch them leave.\u201d The words hung there, and I wished I could suck them back into my mouth.<\/p>\n

— Alexis Hall<\/a>, Boyfriend Material<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

You just have to remind yourself that you can keep going.<\/p>\n

I nodded and told myself the thing that I knew was true: This cannot actually kill you. Sometimes it helped.<\/p>\n

— Roan Parrish<\/a>, Riven<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

One day at a time.<\/p>\n

\u201cPeople like to throw around words like closure and forgiveness, but I\u2019ve long suspected that\u2019s because they don\u2019t want to admit how often healing is cruelly arbitrary. Some things just hurt until they don\u2019t anymore and no one can tell you why, so they pretend you must have gotten closure.\u201d<\/p>\n

— Charlie Adhara<\/a>, Cry Wolf<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Because it cannot actually kill you. Even when it feels like it\u2019s trying.<\/p>\n

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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Call or text 988<\/p>\n

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Veterans Crisis Line<\/a> Call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) and press 1 or text to 838255<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s Why Your Anxiety Can Cause Some Pretty Gnarly Physical Symptoms<\/a><\/p>\n

Physical Symptoms of Anxiety: How Does It Feel?<\/a><\/p>\n

How to Help Someone with Anxiety (John Hopkins)<\/a><\/p>\n

Tips for Living With Anxiety (WebMD)<\/a><\/p>\n

Anxiety Overview (VA)<\/a><\/p>\n

Generalized Anxiety Disorder (ADAA)<\/a><\/p>\n

Anxiety Disorders: Overview (NIH)<\/a><\/p>\n

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\"Poisoned<\/a>Big Bad Wolf series by Charlie Adhara<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Fantasy): The Wolf at the Door<\/em><\/a> (2018), The Wolf at Bay<\/em><\/a> (2018), Thrown to the Wolves<\/em><\/a> (2019), Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing<\/em><\/a> (2020), Cry Wolf<\/em><\/a> (2021)<\/p>\n

Conventionally Yours<\/em><\/a> (2020) Annabeth Albert<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

The Charm Offensive<\/em><\/a> (2021) Alison Cochrun<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Vincent\u2019s Thanksgiving Date<\/em><\/a> (2014) R Cooper<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

His Mossy Boy<\/em><\/a> (2017) R Cooper<\/a> (Beings in Love) main character (Contemporary Fantasy)<\/p>\n

Jericho Candelario\u2019s Gay Debut<\/em><\/a> (2018) R Cooper<\/a>, parent Contemporary (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

After the Scrum<\/em><\/a> (2014) Dahlia Donovan<\/a> (Sin Bin series) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Poisoned Primrose<\/em><\/a> (2020) Dahlia Donovan<\/a> (Motts Cold Case series) main character (Contemporary Mystery)<\/p>\n

London Calling series by Alexis Hall<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance): Boyfriend Material<\/em><\/a> (2020), Husband Material<\/em><\/a> (2022)<\/p>\n

Untouchable<\/em><\/a> (2018) Talia Hibbert<\/a> (Ravenswood) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Work for It<\/em><\/a> (2019) Talia Hibbert<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Take a Hint, Dani Brown<\/em><\/a> (2020) Talia Hibbert<\/a> (Brown Sisters) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Stalked by Shadows<\/em><\/a> (2019) Lissa Kasey<\/a> (Simply Crafty) main character (Contemporary Fantasy)
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\nThe Gentleman\u2019s Guide to Vice and Virtue<\/em><\/a> (2017) Mackenzi Lee<\/a>, main character (Historical Fantasy)<\/p>\n

The Nobleman\u2019s Guide to Scandal and Shipwrecks<\/em><\/a> (2021) Mackenzi Lee<\/a>, main character (Historical Fantasy)<\/p>\n

After the Wedding<\/em><\/a> (2018) Courtney Milan<\/a> (Worth Saga) main character (Historical Romance)<\/p>\n

Invitation to the Blues<\/em><\/a> (2018) Roan Parrish<\/a> (Small Change) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Rend<\/em><\/a> (2018) Roan Parrish<\/a> (Riven) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Better than People<\/em><\/a> (2020) Roan Parrish<\/a> (Garnet Run) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

Best Laid Plans<\/em><\/a> (2021) Roan Parrish<\/a> (Garnet Run) main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

The Love Study<\/em><\/a> (2929) Kris Ripper<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

To Charm a Naughty Countess<\/em><\/a> (2014) Theresa Romain<\/a> (The Matchmaker Trilogy) main character (Historical Romance)<\/p>\n

A Delicate Deception<\/em><\/a> (2019) Cat Sebastian<\/a> (Regency Imposter) main character (Historical Romance)<\/p>\n

The Lawrence Browne Affair<\/em><\/a> (2017) Cat Sebastian<\/a> (The Turner Series) main character (Historical Romance)<\/p>\n

Play It Again<\/em><\/a> (2019) Aidan Wayne<\/a>, main character (Contemporary Romance)<\/p>\n

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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Call or text 988<\/p>\n

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Mental Health Representation in Books: Depression<\/a>
\nMental Health Representation in Books: Grief<\/a>
\nMental Health Representation in Books: PTSD<\/a>
\nMental Health Representation in Books: Addiction and Eating Disorders<\/a><\/p>\n

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