{"id":17448,"date":"2022-10-25T21:30:24","date_gmt":"2022-10-26T01:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/?p=17448"},"modified":"2022-10-26T17:54:45","modified_gmt":"2022-10-26T21:54:45","slug":"happy-ace-week","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/archives\/17448","title":{"rendered":"Happy Ace Week!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Ace awareness week!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>(I)t\u2019s more that he can\u2019t quite wrap his brain around being attracted to <em>anyone<\/em>. He can appreciate the aesthetic beauty of other people, and he\u2019s had intellectual crushes on women\u2014 he\u2019s admired women, respected them, had a vague desire for an intimacy and a closeness he\u2019s never been able to achieve. But he\u2019s never really <em>wanted<\/em> a woman before, and his sexual fantasies about women are usually vague and abstract. They\u2019re not usually even about him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Alison Cochrun, <em>The Charm Offensive<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>Everything looks like friendly teasing if you don\u2019t know what sexual tension is.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Cooper_R.php\">R. Cooper<\/a>\u00a0 <em>For Better or Worse<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>He set the spoon down. \u201cI\u2019m not flirting with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cReally.\u201d Jonah\u2019s voice dripped with disbelief. \u201cYou don\u2019t call putting food in my mouth flirting?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo, actually. I share food with my eating companions regularly.\u201d Vaughn mentally replayed their conversation. \u201cWhat part of the last twenty minutes was flirtatious?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jonah\u2019s jaw dropped. \u201cAre you kidding me? Just how oblivious are you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Cass Lennox. <em>Blank Spaces<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>Orlando thought it strange, if other people were anything to go by, that he\u2019d reached the age of twenty-eight without finding anybody he wanted to be close to.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Charlie Cochrane, <em>Lessons in Love<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>It had taken her a while to understand that <em>hot <\/em>wasn\u2019t quite the same as <em>beautiful <\/em>for most people.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Jae <em>Perfect Rhythm<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>Kissing people gave them the wrong idea, and it was hard to enjoy touching anyone when you were constantly wondering where they\u2019d stick their hands.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Charles_KJ.php\">K.J. Charles<\/a>\u00a0 <em>The Rat-Catcher\u2019s Daughter<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cSo, you have a relationship with this transport.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was horrified. Humans are disgusting. \u201cNo!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ratthi made a little exasperated noise. \u201cI didn\u2019t mean a sexual relationship.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amena\u2019s brow furrowed in confusion and curiosity.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIs that possible?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Martha Wells <em>Murderbot<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr width=\"75%\" \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><strong>\u00a0~ Books with Ace Rep ~ <\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Main characters<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>A Gentleman&#8217;s Position <\/em>(2016) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Charles_KJ.php\">KJ Charles<\/a> (Society of Gentlemen) Romance<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/reading\/archives\/20789\">Ada Maria Soto<\/a> (The Agency): <em>His Quiet Agent <\/em>(2017), <em>Merlin in the Library <\/em>(2018), <em>Agents of Winter <\/em>(2022) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>All the Wrong Places <\/em>(2016) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Gallagher_Ann.php\">Ann Gallagher<\/a> (Bluewater Bay) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Best Laid Plans <\/em>(2021) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Parrish_Roan.php\">Roan Parrish<\/a> (Garnet Run) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>For Better or Worse <\/em>(2017) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Cooper_R.php\">R Cooper<\/a> Romance<\/p>\n<p>TJ Klune <em>How to Be a Normal Person <\/em>(2014), <em>How to Be a Movie Star <\/em>(2019) TJ Klune (How to Be) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Making Love <\/em>(2017) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Wayne_Aidan.php\">Aidan Wayne<\/a> Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Perfect Rhythm <\/em>(2017) Jae (Fair Oaks) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Play It Again <\/em>(2019) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Wayne_Aidan.php\">Aidan Wayne<\/a> Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Jericho Candelario\u2019s Gay Debut <\/em>(2018) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Cooper_R.php\">R Cooper<\/a> parental Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>That Kind of Guy <\/em>(2019) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Hibbert_Talia.php\">Talia Hibbert<\/a> (Ravenswood) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Thaw <\/em>(2017) Elyse Springer (Seasons of Love Book)) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>The Charm Offensive <\/em>(2021) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Cochrun_Alison.php\">Alison Cochrun<\/a> Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>The Ex Talk <\/em>(2021) Rachel Lynn Solomon Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>The Heartbreak Bakery <\/em>(2021) A.R. Capetta Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>The Quid Pro Quo <\/em>(2021) A.L. Lester (Bradfield Trilogy) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>The Rat-Catcher\u2019s Daughter <\/em>(2019) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Charles_KJ.php\">KJ Charles<\/a> (Lilywhite Boys) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Three Stupid Weddings <\/em>(2018) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Gallagher_Ann.php\">Ann Gallagher<\/a> Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Two Rogues Make a Right <\/em>(2020) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Sebastian_Cat.php\">Cat Sebastian<\/a> (Seducing the Sedgwicks) Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Upside Down <\/em>(2019) N.R. Walker Romance<\/p>\n<p><em>Human Enough <\/em>(2019) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/authors\/Yu_ES.php\">ES Yu<\/a> Fantasy<\/p>\n<p><em>The Lady&#8217;s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy <\/em>(2018) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/romance\/Lee_Mackenzi.php\">Mackenzi Lee<\/a> Fantasy<\/p>\n<p><em>Turning Darkness Into Light <\/em>(2019) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/authors\/brennanm.php\">Marie Brennan<\/a> secondary Fantasy<\/p>\n<p><em>Uncommonly Tidy Poltergeists <\/em>(2017) Angel Martinez Fantasy<\/p>\n<p><em>All Systems Red <\/em>(2017) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/authors\/wells_martha.php\">Martha Wells <\/a>\u00a0(The Murderbot Diaries) SF<\/p>\n<p><em>Blank Spaces <\/em>(2016) Cass Lennox (Toronto Connections) Mystery<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/mystery\/Cochrane_Charlie.php\">Charlie Cochrane<\/a> (Cambridge Fellows) <em>Lessons in Love <\/em>(2008). <em>Lessons in Discovery <\/em>(2009) Mystery<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/mystery\/Donovan_Dahlia.php\">Dahlia Donovan<\/a> (Motts Cold Case series): <em>Poisoned Primrose <\/em>(2020), <em>Pickled Petunia <\/em>(2021), <em>Pierced Peony <\/em>(2021), <em>Purloined Poinsettia <\/em>(2022) Mystery<\/p>\n<p><em>The Murder Next Door <\/em>(2021) Sarah Bell Mystery<\/p>\n<p><strong>Secondary characters<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Family Matters <\/em>(2018) Angel Martinez (Brandywine Investigations)) Fantasy<\/p>\n<p><em>The Book of Candlelight <\/em>(2000) Ellery Adams (Secret, Book, &amp; Scone Society) Mystery<\/p>\n<p><em>The Moving Finger <\/em>(1942) Agatha Christie (Miss Marple) Mystery<\/p>\n<p><em>The Tropic of Serpents <\/em>(2014) <a href=\"https:\/\/klishis.com\/Books\/authors\/brennanm.php\">Marie Brennan<\/a> (Lady Trent) Fantasy<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non-Fiction<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Ace What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Identity, and the Meaning of Sex <\/em>(2020) Angela Chen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Ace awareness week! (I)t\u2019s more that he can\u2019t quite wrap his brain around being attracted to anyone. He can appreciate the aesthetic beauty of other people, and he\u2019s had intellectual crushes on women\u2014 he\u2019s admired women, respected them, had a vague desire for an intimacy and a closeness he\u2019s never been able to achieve. 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