{"id":3580,"date":"2008-12-01T12:47:47","date_gmt":"2008-12-01T17:47:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/?p=3580"},"modified":"2008-12-01T13:17:35","modified_gmt":"2008-12-01T18:17:35","slug":"fashion-victims","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/archives\/3580","title":{"rendered":"Fashion Victims"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>During my lunch walk, I came to some conclusions about fashion. At least, my opinions about fashion.<\/p>\n<p>To put it plainly, I don&#8217;t get it.<\/p>\n<p>Take shoes. I admit that I buy expensive shoes, but that is because I want my shoes to be comfortable, and I&#8217;m willing to pay well to make sure my feet don&#8217;t hurt. But I see no reason to wear shoes that draw attention to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Why do I want someone staring at my feet?<\/p>\n<p>Same goes for clothing. I try to dress at least someone professionally for work, because I feel that if I look professional people are more willing to accept me as an expert. No, it&#8217;s not fair the world works that way, but there it is. If I am teaching, I want people to look at me as the expert in the class, and so I dress accordingly. But I do not want clothing that will draw so much attention to itself that people are looking at my clothes and not me.<\/p>\n<p>I want people to look at me and to listen to what I am saying. I don&#8217;t want them staring at my shoes or at my clothing. Those things are the background and should remain in the background.<\/p>\n<p>And if I&#8217;m not teaching, I want clothing that will allow me to blend into the background and remain unremarkable. Why? Because that&#8217;s how I am.<\/p>\n<p>I used to dress aggressively to give off the attitude, &#8220;don&#8217;t bother me,&#8221; and although I liked that and it was effective, it&#8217;s not very helpful for getting assistance if you need it. So instead I go for wallflower. And don&#8217;t understand people whose clothing wears them, instead of vice versa.<\/p>\n<p>(What prompted this? A pair of boots that looked like a cross between a moccasin, a bedroom slipper, and a dead rabbit.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>During my lunch walk, I came to some conclusions about fashion. At least, my opinions about fashion. To put it plainly, I don&#8217;t get it. Take shoes. I admit that I buy expensive shoes, but that is because I want my shoes to be comfortable, and I&#8217;m willing to pay well to make sure my [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3580","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pefxA-VK","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3580","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3580"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3580\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3580"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3580"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/klishis.com\/notreally\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3580"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}